男人有泪不轻弹,伤害

篇一：男儿有泪不轻弹

男儿有泪不轻弹

什么叫做non-crying cry？这是男人们专有的一种哭泣方式。也许在婚礼上，女儿和妈妈可以互相抹去眼泪，但是爸爸只能一个人默默回到自己的房间，默默去想念，因为男人是不允许在大庭广众之下轻易掉眼泪的。这也是为什么一个父亲会教自己的儿子，如何学会non-crying cry。大家有没有觉得，父亲节或者老爸的生日那天，不管你花多少心思，都难得看到老爸像老妈那样大动感情呢？其实，他只是用另一种方式，流下了作为男人和父亲的眼泪。

Real men don't cry. We just get something in our eye

'Daddy, you're crying,' say my sons. 'No, boys, I'm man-crying. Very useful skill.'

A short walk from my house in Hampshire, on a hill overlooking the heathland, is a plaque marking the spot where Richard Pryce Jones deliberately crashed his Halifax bomber during the war. He could have parachuted to safety, but that would have meant crashing into the village. The epitaph reads: "He died that others might live."

It never fails to move me. Not to tears, you understand. That would be disrespectful. But I do usually manage a lump in the throat and that film of moisture over the eyes that men have in their emotional armoury. Gordon Brown demonstrated the non-crying cry beautifully when he made his farewell speech on the steps of Number 10. That catch in the throat. The determination not to weep in public. At that moment, if at no other, he had nobility.

Not everyone can carry it off. I don't think Paul Gascoigne ever quite got the hang of it, for example. But I like to think I have it down to an art, my technique honed from years of watching The Railway Children, Sleepless in Seattle and that scene in Dumbo when the mother elephant is locked away. "Daddy!" my sons will say, pointing the accusing finger. "You're crying!"

"Me? Over Dumbo? Ha ha ha. No, boys, what I am doing is man-crying, a sort of non-crying cry. I'll teach you it one day. Very useful."

They are too young to appreciate the nuance yet, but when they are older I will explain that open sobbing is associated with being female, and so inappropriate for men. The Charlie Chaplin analogy might be useful here. He once said that the way to act drunk is to imagine yourself a drunk man

trying to act sober. The same is true when a man learns the non-crying cry. To be convincing, you must look as if you are trying to avoid tears. In this respect, it is important for a young man to appreciate the difference between male tears and female. I remember once asking the actress Emilia Fox if she could cry at will, right there and then, over lunch. To my astonishment, she could – from a standing start. Fat tears rolling down her cheeks. When she had finished, she resumed her smiling countenance.

Those are female tears, and the reason you never hear anyone say: "It's enough to make a grown woman cry." That expression only works when it refers to "grown men" and though that may seem tautological, the "grown" is justified. Not all men are grown. The emotionally incontinent exhibitionists who cry when they are kicked off talent shows such as The X Factor are not grown men, for example. Men have to be careful what they cry at, because some subjects are more worthy of tears than others. Grief, obviously. But not self-pity. And rarely should a man cry in pain. And never at the death of a princess he didn't know. Those are the rules. I suspect my colleague Matt Pritchett might be with me on this. One of his cartoons this past week showed a father next to a television tuned to the World Cup, explaining to his children that "at some point in the next few weeks, you are going to see me cry". And the day after the last survivor of the Great Escape died, he did a cartoon showing a gravestone with a mound of tunnelled earth trailing away from it. I seemed to have something in my eye when I saw that, and I expect he had the same something in his eye when he drew it.

篇二：男儿有泪不轻弹

男儿有泪不轻弹

什么叫做non-crying cry？这是男人们专有的一种哭泣方式。也许在婚礼上，女儿和妈妈可以互相抹去眼泪，但是爸爸只能一个人默默回到自己的房间，默默去想念，因为男人是不允许在大庭广众之下轻易掉眼泪的。这也是为什么一个父亲会教自己的儿子，如何学会non-crying cry。大家有没有觉得，父亲节或者老爸的生日那天，不管你花多少心思，都难得看到老爸像老妈那样大动感情呢？其实，他只是用另一种方式，流下了作为男人和父亲的眼泪。

Real men don't cry. We just get something in our eye

'Daddy, you're crying,' say my sons. 'No, boys, I'm man-crying. Very useful skill.'

A short walk from my house in Hampshire, on a hill overlooking the heathland, is a plaque marking the spot where Richard Pryce Jones deliberately crashed his Halifax bomber during the war. He could have parachuted to safety, but that would have meant crashing into the village. The epitaph reads: "He died that others might live."

It never fails to move me. Not to tears, you understand. That would be disrespectful. But I do usually manage a lump in the throat and that film of moisture over the eyes that men have in their emotional armoury. Gordon Brown demonstrated the non-crying cry beautifully when he made his farewell speech on the steps of Number 10. That catch in the throat. The determination not to weep in public. At that moment, if at no other, he had nobility.

Not everyone can carry it off. I don't think Paul Gascoigne ever quite got the hang of it, for example. But I like to think I have it down to an art, my technique honed from years of watching The Railway Children, Sleepless in Seattle and that scene in Dumbo when the mother elephant is locked away. "Daddy!" my sons will say, pointing the accusing finger. "You're crying!"

"Me? Over Dumbo? Ha ha ha. No, boys, what I am doing is man-crying, a sort of non-crying cry. I'll teach you it one day. Very useful."

They are too young to appreciate the nuance yet, but when they are older I will explain that open sobbing is associated with being female, and so inappropriate for men. The Charlie Chaplin analogy might be useful here. He once said that the way to act drunk is to imagine yourself a drunk man

trying to act sober. The same is true when a man learns the non-crying cry. To be convincing, you must look as if you are trying to avoid tears. In this respect, it is important for a young man to appreciate the difference between male tears and female. I remember once asking the actress Emilia Fox if she could cry at will, right there and then, over lunch. To my astonishment, she could – from a standing start. Fat tears rolling down her cheeks. When she had finished, she resumed her smiling countenance.

Those are female tears, and the reason you never hear anyone say: "It's enough to make a grown woman cry." That expression only works when it refers to "grown men" and though that may seem tautological, the "grown" is justified. Not all men are grown. The emotionally incontinent exhibitionists who cry when they are kicked off talent shows such as The X Factor are not grown men, for example. Men have to be careful what they cry at, because some subjects are more worthy of tears than others. Grief, obviously. But not self-pity. And rarely should a man cry in pain. And never at the death of a princess he didn't know. Those are the rules. I suspect my colleague Matt Pritchett might be with me on this. One of his cartoons this past week showed a father next to a television tuned to the World Cup, explaining to his children that "at some point in the next few weeks, you are going to see me cry". And the day after the last survivor of the Great Escape died, he did a cartoon showing a gravestone with a mound of tunnelled earth trailing away from it. I seemed to have something in my eye when I saw that, and I expect he had the same something in his eye when he drew it.

篇三：谁说男儿有泪不轻弹

几十年，弹指一挥间。追忆毕业离别时的情境，也曾望着她远去的身影，泪流满面。谁说男儿有泪不轻弹！有歌唱到：“轻轻地拉着妹妹的手，汪汪的泪水止不住地流，这一别等到多少时候，见你也要白了头”。谁说男儿有泪不轻弹！

夜里突然醒来，想到梦中她那双相遇时的眼神，望着窗外明亮的月光，我潸然泪下。谁说男儿有泪不轻弹！有诗云：“夜来幽梦忽还乡”，“相顾无言唯有泪千行”。谁说男儿有泪不轻弹！

清晨漫步大路上，望着都在迎接春天的万物，触景生情，激动的泪水打湿了衣衫。谁说男儿有泪不轻弹！

篇四：如此辩论

《如此辩论》

主持人（以下简称为主）：女，余桂红

正方辩手两名（以下简称为正1、正2）：罗威，周明 反方辩手两名（以下简称为反1、反2）：吕亚彩，尹韬

现场：如正规辩论赛，正、反辩手分别在主持人两侧坐定。 主：现场和电视机前的观众朋友们，大家晚上好！现在我们是在富士康2012年度IDPBG事业群制四课制六部实习生动员大会现场举行全国叮叮当当杯辩论赛决赛。首先为大家介绍一下：正方辩手是来自相声界的代表，他们的辩题是笑比哭好；反方辩手是来自小品界的代表，他们的辩题是哭比笑好。下面我宣布此次辩论赛决赛现在开始。选择叮叮当当，选择绚丽人生，叮叮当当牌纳米奶糖。下面有请正方一辩作立论陈词，时间是一分钟，请！

正1：谢谢主席。我方认为笑比哭好，原因有三：第一，笑是美的代名词，从古至今每当提到历史中的美女，书中写的都是嫣然回眸、莞尔一笑；选择了笑就选择了美丽，我选择我喜欢。 正2（将鞋放在桌子上，说道）：安踏

正1：第二，笑可以增添我们生活中的乐趣，使生活变得多彩多姿；第三，笑可以缩短人与人之间的距离，使大家和睦相处，亲密得像一家人。由此可见，笑要比哭好。谢谢大家！（坐下，起来，方言）笑是最好的！

主：没有最好只有更好！感谢正方一辩的精彩发言。吃叮叮当当绿色纳米奶糖精彩每一天。下面有请反方一辩作立论陈词，时间也是

一分钟。

反1：谢谢主席。对方刚才作了非常精彩的发言，可我方对对方的某些观点不敢苟同。我方认为，笑再怎么好也不如哭好。首先，哭是发泄郁闷最重要的方式，我们听说有人闷闷不乐，有人郁郁而终，甚至还听说有人打麻将摸个大胡笑死的，所以，喜不应该狂笑，而悲就需要痛哭。再一个，哭能强身健体、美容养颜。研究表明，哭可以牵动两百多块面部肌肉，俗话说生命在于运动。

反2：没事哭一哭啊，还真管用，这腰不疼了，腿不抽筋了，辩论也有劲了！

反1：多哭一哭，还可以让您变得更年轻，真正做到白里透红、与众不同。综上所述，哭确确实实要比笑好。谢谢大家！

主：吃叮叮当当绿色纳米奶糖精彩每一天，感谢双方的精彩发言。观众朋友可以打电话或发短信参与到我们的节目中来，并有机会获得我们的精美礼品。我们的礼品是威行天下汽车制造总厂生产的满嘴是油牌榨菜一包。

反2：满嘴是油牌榨菜真是好，大家好~才是真的好~

主：或是妈妈我还要奶嘴厂生产的方方正正牌咸鸭蛋一个。 正2：方方正正牌咸鸭蛋，鸭蛋中的战斗蛋~~

主：以上产品如因过期或包装问题导致产品腐坏变质，概不退换。下面进入自由辩论，双方各有五分钟时间，自由与荣耀，叮叮当当绿色纳米奶糖。有请正方先发言。

正1：我方说了，笑是美的代名词，有那么多成语和典故描写美

丽的笑，像嫣然一笑、哈哈大笑！

反1：还有笑掉大牙是吧！观众朋友们呢，可千万要看好你们的大牙啊，一定不要笑掉了！

正2：对方辩友也不要高兴得太早，咱们再来看看形容哭的有什么好一点的词吗？哭爹喊娘，鬼哭狼嚎。

反2：鬼哭狼嚎怎么了？我们这叫与狼共舞，尽显男人风范。 反1：七匹狼西服，男人的选择~

正2：依我看你们连西服最基本的要求都不知道。

反1：那有什么不知道？女人对男人的要求就是男人对西服的要求。

正1：听你们这么说倒是挺了解女人了？

反1：了不了解都不能说明笑比哭好。

正1：哪个男人如果说他了解女人，那绝对是痴人说梦。小桥流水是女人，高山瀑布是女人，乌云遮日是女人，星星点灯还是女人。女人心海底针，难琢磨呀！

反2：既然说到女人，那就离不开哭。哭是女人征服男人的利器，多少铮铮男子汉都是败在女人的眼泪之下。

正2：哭是脆弱的表现，男儿有泪不轻弹。当我们这些顶天立地的大男人心灵受到伤害时，就自己再加上一把刀，叫“忍”。

反1：男人哭吧不是罪！尝尝阔别已久的眼泪~（方言）流泪是一种解脱，泪水可以冲淡忧愁，安慰受伤的心。

正1：现在的男人都习惯把一切冷笑置之。女人的眼泪也不再好

使，一哭二闹三上吊在我们大老爷们面前也不管用了。

反2：孟姜女望夫是哭倒了长城，传为千古佳话，可就是没听说有人笑倒过长城！

正2：孟姜女哭倒长城你看见了？

反2：我是没看着。哎，我没看着你看着了？

正2：你没看着你在这里瞎扯啥？

反2：没看着就不兴瞎扯？主席，孟姜女情深意笃，是你们女性的骄傲，你来说说。

主：长城永不倒，国货当自强。对不起，我也没看到她哭倒过长城。算了吧，这个问题就过去了，你们继续吧。

正2：年年岁岁花相似，岁岁年年人不同。如今女人的眼泪就像自来水一样哗啦哗啦随便而且廉价，男人见多了也就见怪不怪了。

反1：廉价是让利，精彩不打折！可笑却是要付出代价的，周幽王只为博得美女一笑，烽火戏诸侯，终成亡国之君；曹孟德败走华容，三声大笑引来赵关张三路兵马，多亏痛哭才赢得关羽同情，放他一条生路。所以哭才是最好的。

反2：哭得好，嘿，胃口就好，吃嘛嘛香。

反1反2：每天哭个够，吃饭就是香~~

反1反

2：每天哭个够，吃饭就是香~~

主：（吹哨）现在我宣布，禁止反方发言，时间是30秒~

主：恭喜手机尾号是110119的朋友获得本期节目的特等奖，奖品是北京野生动物园一日游，门票自付，来回车票自费，早中晚三餐

自备。吃叮叮当当纳米奶茶，好运伴君有。（2秒停顿）一般人我不告诉他~~节目继续。

正1：我们的笑声可以穿云裂石。

反1：我们的哭声可以撕心裂肺。

正2：兄弟再相逢，一笑泯恩仇，笑可以消除隔阂，化解仇恨。反2：老乡见老乡，两眼泪汪汪。还有我国体育健儿为国争光， 取得令世人瞩目的成绩，当胸前挂着金灿灿的奥运金牌，望着鲜红的五星红旗冉冉升起的时刻，他们总是热泪盈眶。可见，哭是真情表露的最佳方式。

正1：在北京举行的2008年奥运会让全体华夏儿女引以为荣， 期间将有上万名志愿者会喜上眉梢、笑挂嘴角地为届时前来北京的国际友人提供无微不至的帮助，充当笑的使者。难道对方辩友有什么反对的吗？

反1（站起来后不知道怎么回答，问反2）：怎么说？

反2对反1：你说你的，问我干什么？

反1对正1：你说你的，问我干什么？

正1：听君一言胜读十年书，使我身心俱碎、如沐春风，自叹弗如啊！差点让我笑得流出眼泪来。

反1：对！大家都知道喜极而泣、乐极生悲，可见笑的两个极端都是哭，这又作何解释？

（正1和正2同时站起来，看到对方站起来了，又同时做下。） 正1对正2：你说吧。

篇五：男儿有泪不轻弹

男儿有泪不轻弹

“男儿有泪不轻弹”这是舅妈告诫我的一句话。

今天，爸妈又因为我的作文而生气了，爸爸嫌我的字写得太少，妈妈说我不用功写作文。我听后感觉很委屈，也很惭愧。他们都是因为我而生的气，但也不能全怪我啊，我本身的功底就差，我得好好的想好了再写啊，写完了还得修改。难道你们都希望我一天就全写完吗？我可以一天写上几千字，但是那样才是我真的在糊弄你们，在敷衍我自己，难道你们不明白吗？

我在努力，真的在努力，但是学习不是一天两天就能速成的，我要一步步的融会贯通，一点点的扎实基础。一点点的弥补以前的知识的同时我还要学习新知识，这些你们都能理解我吗？不理解，所以我感觉很委屈。

我知道我现在学习不够好，经常惹你们生气，我想要啥东西你们不论贵贱都给我买，让我吃的、穿的、玩的都不比别的同学差。你们对我唯一的希望就是好好学习，而我却迟迟没能给你们一个奖状，让你们真真正正地开心一回??

听着你们吵架，我哭得委屈、惭愧和内疚。

这时侯，舅妈抱起了我，对我说：“男儿有泪有轻弹”男子汉的泪水不是用来倾泄心中的委屈和惭愧的，也是不是用来向别人解释什么的，记住今天的教训，把压力化成动力，咱们好好学习，别让你爸妈再吵架了，因为你的学习。

是啊！“男儿有泪不轻弹”我也正在用泪水提醒我自己，好好学习，让爸妈都高兴起来。

爸妈，以后我的泪水不会再出现在因为学习的事情上。你们能相信我吗？

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