直言相告的意思

篇一：直言与婉言

为了达到让对方理解你的话语，认同你的观点的目的，不仅要说真话，还要选择适当的说话方式。“直言”和“婉言”就是重要的说话方式之一。直言，所用词语的意思与所要表达的实际意思一致，直截了当，不要曲曲折折，吞吞吐吐。要求明快、简洁。“直言不讳”固然很好，但有时候也需要“婉言”才会“动听”。婉言的方式：用一些相应的同义词语表示意思，或采用自谦的说法，或使用假设、商询的语气。直言使人感到真实、诚恳；婉言使人易于接受。要根据不同情况，不同场合和自己的需要，决定采用说话的方式。

在很长一段时间里，直话直说被普遍认为是一种美德，即使因言语不当而产生或激化矛盾，也每每以“良药苦口利于病，忠言逆耳利于行”，“我说话只会直来直去，不会拐弯抹角”为由替自己开脱。殊不知“郑重”不一定就是紧绷着脸。这直言固然可嘉，但直说却未必值得称道。

汉代刘向在《说苑》里说：“辞不可不修，话不可不善”，民间俗语也说：“打人莫打脸”。说话之要，在于得体，在于善解人意，经常从对方的角度想一想，即设身处地，换角度。这样才会有人听，才会有好的效果。其实，“利于病”的良药未必苦口，“利于行”的忠言也并非“逆耳”不行。俄国人有句俚语道：“在开口之前先把舌头在嘴里转十圈”，恐怕也是为了防止语中带刺，出口伤人吧？

提倡言语委婉，并不是说如今“直言”用不着了，更不是说要绕开矛盾，淡化错误，大事化小，小事化了。任何事物都是对立统一的。对有些后进生，我们也不妨直言相劝，甚至不妨用一用“激将法”。

俗话说：“请将不如激将”，刺激性的言语在一定条件下能产生“点石成金”的奇效，可以唤起潜在的自尊心、进取心。

总而言之，直言、婉言本身并无高下之分优劣之别，关键在于我们掌握好分寸。

篇二：-直言不讳-的英语口语表达

"直言不讳"的英语口语表达

英文里有句话叫做“Truth hurts.” 说实话、说真话有时候真的会很伤人。可是在必要的时候，我们还是需要直言不讳的。今天，我们就来看看英文里那些表达“直言不讳”的习惯用语。

1. straight from the shoulder 直截了当，一针见血

大约一百年前straight from the shoulder成为习惯用语，用来指直截了当、开诚布公的说话方式，而且这样说话是不顾虑是否会伤害对方感情的。例如： Boy, Nancy is sure mad at me! I told her straight from the shoulder this man she wants to marry is no good and she'd be making a terrible mistake. Now she won't even speak to me.

唉，Nancy一定生我的气了！我直截了当地对她说她想嫁的那人一无是处，她看错了人。现在，她连理都不理我了。

2. pull no punches 直言相告

有时拳击手会因为手骨受伤之类的原因不用力击拳，这就叫做pull the punches，但是通常拳击手在比赛时出拳一定会竭尽全力，那就是pull no punches。逐渐人们用pull no punches来比喻尽管忠言逆耳也毫无保留地说出实情。例如： When I saw my brother Joe turning into an alcoholic, I pulled no punches -- I told him to think of his wife and kids, stop drinking and go out and find a job.

我看到我弟弟Joe成了个酒鬼，立刻毫不留情地正告他，要为妻子和孩子着想，让他立刻戒酒并出去找个工作。

3. lay it on the line 把话放到桌面上

Lay it on the line可能是这样，把一大笔赌注放在赌台上，孤注一掷，尽其所有地做最后较量，就叫做lay it on the line，现在也可以当作“最后通牒、摊派”的意思来用。例如：

I'm fed up with George -- he doesn't do half as much work as the others. So I called him in and laid it on the line -- either he starts doing his work like anybody else or we fire him at the end of the month.

我可受够了George，他干的活还没旁人一半多。所以我叫他来跟他把话都说明白了，要不跟别人一样好好工作，要不就在月底走人。

4. let it all hang out 开诚布公，挑明

Hang是挂的意思，let it all hang out如果直译就是“把什么都挂出来。” 换句话说就是“把什么都挑明了。例如：

We agreed to forget our feelings and let it all hang out. Susan told me everything she didn't like about me and I told her what annoyed me about her. You know, it really cleared the air for both of us.

我俩同意心平气和地把话都挑明了说。Susan说出了我所有那些让她看不顺眼的事情，而我也跟她讲了她会令我不快的做法。知道吗，这真的使我们之间的误会烟消云散了。

篇三：-直言不讳-的英语口语表达

"直言不讳"的英语口语表达

英文里有句话叫做“Truth hurts.” 说实话、说真话有时候真的会很伤人。可是在必要的时候，我们还是需要直言不讳的。今天，我们就来看看英文里那些表达“直言不讳”的习惯用语。

1. straight from the shoulder 直截了当，一针见血

大约一百年前straight from the shoulder成为习惯用语，用来指直截了当、开诚布公的说话方式，而且这样说话是不顾虑是否会伤害对方感情的。例如： Boy, Nancy is sure mad at me! I told her straight from the shoulder this man she wants to marry is no good and she'd be making a terrible mistake. Now she won't even speak to me.

唉，Nancy一定生我的气了！我直截了当地对她说她想嫁的那人一无是处，她看错了人。现在，她连理都不理我了。

2. pull no punches 直言相告

有时拳击手会因为手骨受伤之类的原因不用力击拳，这就叫做pull the punches，但是通常拳击手在比赛时出拳一定会竭尽全力，那就是pull

no punches。逐渐人们用pull no punches来比喻尽管忠言逆耳也毫无保留地说出实情。例如： When I saw my brother Joe turning into an alcoholic, I pulled no punches -- I told him to think of his wife and kids, stop drinking and go out and find a job.

我看到我弟弟Joe成了个酒鬼，立刻毫不留情地正告他，要为妻子和孩子着想，让他立刻戒酒并出去找个工作。

3. lay it on the line 把话放到桌面上

Lay it on the line可能是这样，把一大笔赌注放在赌台上，孤注一掷，尽其所有地做最后较量，就叫做lay it on the line，现在也可以当作“最后通牒、摊派”的意思来用。例如：

I'm fed up with George -- he doesn't do half as much work as the others. So I called him in and laid it on the line -- either he starts doing his work like anybody else or we fire him at the end of the month.

我可受够了George，他干的活还没旁人一半多。所以我叫他来跟他把话都说明白了，要不跟别人一样好好工作，要不就在月底走人。

4. let it all hang out 开诚布公，挑明

Hang是挂的意思，let it all hang out如果直译就是“把什么都挂出来。” 换句话说就是“把什么都挑明了。例如：

We agreed to forget our feelings and let it all hang out. Susan told me everything she didn't like about me and I told her what annoyed me about her. You know, it really cleared the air for both of us.

我俩同意心平气和地把话都挑明了说。Susan说出了我所有那些让她看不顺眼的事情，而我也跟她讲了她会令我不快的做法。知道吗，这真的使我们之间的误会烟消云散了。

篇四：-直言不讳-的英语口语表达

"直言不讳"的英语口语表达

英文里有句话叫做“Truth hurts.” 说实话、说真话有时候真的会很伤人。可是在必要的时候，我们还是需要直言不讳的。今天，我们就来看看英文里那些表达“直言不讳”的习惯用语。

1. straight from the shoulder 直截了当，一针见血

大约一百年前straight from the shoulder成为习惯用语，用来指直截了当、开诚布公的说话方式，而且这样说话是不顾虑是否会伤害对方感情的。例如： Boy, Nancy is sure mad at me! I told her straight from the shoulder this man she wants to marry is no good and she'd be making a terrible mistake. Now she won't even speak to me.

唉，Nancy一定生我的气了！我直截了当地对她说她想嫁的那人一无是处，她看错了人。现在，她连理都不理我了。

2. pull no punches 直言相告

有时拳击手会因为手骨受伤之类的原因不用力击拳，这就叫做pull the punches，但是通常拳击手在比赛时出拳一定会竭尽全力，那就是pull no punches。逐渐人们用pull no punches来比喻尽管忠言逆耳也毫无保留地说出实情。例如： When I saw my brother Joe turning into an alcoholic, I pulled no punches -- I told him to think of his wife and kids, stop drinking and go out and find a job.

我看到我弟弟Joe成了个酒鬼，立刻毫不留情地正告他，要为妻子和孩子着想，让他立刻戒酒并出去找个工作。

3. lay it on the line 把话放到桌面上

Lay it on the line可能是这样，把一大笔赌注放在赌台上，孤注一掷，尽其所有地做最后较量，就叫做lay it on the line，现在也可以当作“最后通牒、摊派”的意思来用。例如：

I'm fed up with George -- he doesn't do half as much work as the others. So I called him in and laid it on the line -- either he starts doing his work like anybody else or we fire him at the end of the month.

我可受够了George，他干的活还没旁人一半多。所以我叫他来跟他把话都说明白了，要不跟别人一样好好工作，要不就在月底走人。

4. let it all hang out 开诚布公，挑明

Hang是挂的意思，let it all hang out如果直译就是“把什么都挂出来。” 换句话说就是“把什么都挑明了。例如：

We agreed to forget our feelings and let it all hang out. Susan told me everything she didn't like about me and I told her what annoyed me about her. You know, it really cleared the air for both of us.

我俩同意心平气和地把话都挑明了说。Susan说出了我所有那些让她看不顺眼的事情，而我也跟她讲了她会令我不快的做法。知道吗，这真的使我们之间的误会烟消云散了。

篇五：-直言不讳-的英语口语表达

"直言不讳"的英语口语表达

英文里有句话叫做“Truth hurts.” 说实话、说真话有时候真的会很伤人。可是在必要的时候，我们还是需要直言不讳的。今天，我们就来看看英文里那些表达“直言不讳”的习惯用语。

1. straight from the shoulder 直截了当，一针见血

大约一百年前straight from the shoulder成为习惯用语，用来指直截了当、开诚布公的说话方式，而且这样说话是不顾虑是否会伤害对方感情的。例如： Boy, Nancy is sure mad at me! I told her straight from the shoulder this man she wants to marry is no good and she'd be making a terrible mistake. Now she won't even speak to me.

唉，Nancy一定生我的气了！我直截了当地对她说她想嫁的那人一无是处，她看错了人。现在，她连理都不理我了。

2. pull no punches 直言相告

有时拳击手会因为手骨受伤之类的原因不用力击拳，这就叫做pull the punches，但是通常拳击手在比赛时出拳一定会竭尽全力，那就是pull no punches。逐渐人们用pull no punches来比喻尽管忠言逆耳也毫无保留地说出实情。例如： When I saw my brother Joe turning into an alcoholic, I pulled no punches -- I told him to think of his wife and kids, stop drinking and go out and find a job.

我看到我弟弟Joe成了个酒鬼，立刻毫不留情地正告他，要为妻子和孩子着想，让他立刻戒酒并出去找个工作。

3. lay it on the line 把话放到桌面上

Lay it on the line可能是这样，把一大笔赌注放在赌台上，孤注一掷，尽其所有地做最后较量，就叫做lay it on the line，现在也可以当作“最后通牒、摊派”的意思来用。例如：

I'm fed up with George -- he doesn't do half as much work as the others. So I called him in and laid it on the line -- either he starts doing his work like anybody else or we fire him at the end of the month.

我可受够了George，他干的活还没旁人一半多。所以我叫他来跟他把话都说明白了，要不跟别人一样好好工作，要不就在月底走人。

4. let it all hang out 开诚布公，挑明

Hang是挂的意思，let it all hang out如果直译就是“把什么都挂出来。” 换句话说就是“把什么都挑明了。例如：

We agreed to forget our feelings and let it all hang out. Susan told me everything she didn't like about me and I told her what annoyed me about her. You know, it really cleared the air for both of us.

我俩同意心平气和地把话都挑明了说。Susan说出了我所有那些让她看不顺眼的事情，而我也跟她讲了她会令我不快的做法。知道吗，这真的使我们之间的误会烟消云散了。

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