英语翻译Several weeks ago,I was doing homework with my son,who is in the third grade,and he kept standing up from his chair to go over the math problems.I kept asking him to sit down,telling him that he would concentrate better.He sat but seconds

英语翻译Several weeks ago,I was doing homework with my son,who is in the third grade,and he kept standing up from his chair to go over the math problems.I kept asking him to sit down,telling him that he would concentrate better.He sat but seconds
英语翻译
Several weeks ago,I was doing homework with my son,who is in the third grade,and he kept standing up from his chair to go over the math problems.I kept asking him to sit down,telling him that he would concentrate better.He sat but seconds later,as if he didn't even notice he was doing it,he got up again.I was getting frustrated,but then it hit me.I started noticing his answers were much more accurate and came up much quicker when he stood up.Could he be more focused while standing up?
This made me start questioning myself and what we always believe.We tend to believe that being quiet and calm is a sure way to success.Such a child will have the discipline to study hard,get good grades and become someone important in life.Kids that are active and loud will only be objects of stares,and parents would say,"My kids will not be like that,I can assure you."
However,later on some of these parents would come to realize that their kids were born with their own set of DNA and personality traits.They may not act the way you expect them to act,and all you can do is to love and accept them.As parents,throughout their growing years and beyond that,we need to be our kids' best cheerleaders.
I have stopped asking my son to sit down and concentrate.Obviously,he is concentrating,just in his own way and not mine.We need to learn to accept our kids' ways of doing things.The old way may have worked for us but it doesn't mean we need to carry it on for generations.There is nothing sweeter than being individual and unique.It makes us free and happy,and that's just the way I want my kids to live their life.

英语翻译Several weeks ago,I was doing homework with my son,who is in the third grade,and he kept standing up from his chair to go over the math problems.I kept asking him to sit down,telling him that he would concentrate better.He sat but seconds
几个星期前,我正陪着我上三年级的儿子做作业,他检查数学问题时一直从椅子上站起来.我一直叫他坐下,告诉他这样才能更好地集中注意力.他坐下了,但是没过几秒,他又站起来了,似乎他自己都没有察觉到.我有点沮丧,但是又突然有了一种想法.我开始注意到当他站起来时,他更快得出,答案也准确得多.难道他站起来时注意力更集中?
这让我开始质疑自己和我们一直以来所相信的.我们常会相信沉着安静是通向成功的可靠方法.这样,孩子就会自律努力学习,取得好成绩,并在人生中有所成就.好动吵闹的孩子只会成为众目所向.父母们总会说：“我敢保证,我的孩子不会那样的.”
然而,后来有些父母会认识到他们的孩子有着自己的DNA组合以及个性品质.他们也许并不会按照你所期望的去做,而你能做的就是去爱和接受他们.作为父母,在孩子的成长岁月以及后来的日子里,我们都要做他们最好的支持者.
我已经不再叫我儿子坐下和集中注意力了.显然,他已经在集中注意力了,只不过是以他自己的方式而不是我的方式.我们要学会接受我们的孩子做事情的方式.以前的方法也许对我们有用,但是这并不意味着我们就得将它代代相传.没有什么比个性和与众不同更美好了.它使我们感到自由和快乐,这就是我希望我的孩子们过日子的方式.