Is lying ever OK?如题写一篇3分钟的英语演讲稿~~~集不用太深奥的，口语化一点即可~

Is lying ever OK?如题写一篇3分钟的英语演讲稿~~~集不用太深奥的，口语化一点即可~
Is lying ever OK?
如题写一篇3分钟的英语演讲稿~~~集
不用太深奥的，口语化一点即可~

Is lying ever OK?如题写一篇3分钟的英语演讲稿~~~集不用太深奥的，口语化一点即可~
It is sometimes ok to lie?Some of the advantages for lying are:
• the truth can be hurtful
• helps avoid unnecessary conflict
• helps maintain a sense of privacy
Of course,there are many disadvantages as well.
When Is It OK to Lie?
Is Lying a Sin or a Survival Skill?
[By CaregiverZone]
When George Washington cut down his father's cherry tree,he "could not tell a lie" and confessed to his father.The morale:A good person always tells the truth.The story did not discuss the circumstances surrounding the tree-cutting or subsequent confession.What if George's dad had heart trouble and learning about the demise of his cherry tree would have caused unneeded stress?
We have been instructed that telling the truth is an absolute - you either tell the truth or you lie,and lying is a sin.But life rarely allows for such clear distinctions.Which leads me to the following confession:I have lied to my clients and what's more have encouraged their families to do the same!
I don't propose we use lying as our primary strategy in caregiving.However,I do feel it is a legitimate tool in our coping kit for our own good as caregivers and the seniors we care for.
Each of us has an internal moral compass.It's important to step back and examine your own values about lying.My view is that it should never be automatic.It's a worst-case scenario.If you intend to lie,ask yourself:
What am I gaining by telling this lie?
What am I losing?
What impact will it have on the senior?
What impact will it have on me?
What impact will it have on our relationship?
Clearly,some lies are worth telling and some are not.I believe it is OK to lie when:
The truth does not matter.Often people with dementia talk about people and places that no longer exist except in their memories.It is extremely common for people with dementia to talk about visiting parents long deceased."I need to bring my father some coffee," a client once insisted.There was no point in my bringing him back to reality by reminding him his father had been dead for 15 years.Instead I would say,"We will be going to see him soon.What does he take with his coffee?" Telling the truth in this circumstance simply did not matter - the lie hurt no one,and the truth would have caused pain.