大学伊始,新生间存在差异,和室友处理好关系很重要,如何处理好室友间的关系~用英文写一篇作文~

大学伊始,新生间存在差异,和室友处理好关系很重要,如何处理好室友间的关系~用英文写一篇作文~
大学伊始,新生间存在差异,和室友处理好关系很重要,如何处理好室友间的关系~用英文写一篇作文~

大学伊始,新生间存在差异,和室友处理好关系很重要,如何处理好室友间的关系~用英文写一篇作文~
1、要学会大度、宽容
对于室友不良的生活习惯,不妨开诚布公地跟他谈谈.因为有的时候是自己没有意识到而妨碍了别人,如果有人给他提出来他可能就会注意了.住上铺的同学可能会不小心弄脏了下铺的床单,或者把本来平平整整的床单弄得皱皱巴巴,下铺不去计较就好了.大家同室而居,勺子总有碰锅沿的时候,如果经常为这等小事不满、烦心的话,真的是彼此很难相处了.
2、要正确看待每个人的长处和不足
人无完人,金无足赤.如果你发现室友出门后彬彬有礼而在寝室里甚至有点粗鲁,可能正说明他真的把寝室当做可以随便表现自己、无须设防的家了.不能因为谁有某种不足就讨厌他,如果这个缺点不是品质上的,不是道德问题的话.
大家能够走到一起,本身就是一种缘.当你们各自到更广阔的天地里去驰骋时,相信每一个人都不会忘记在花季时光里那些“住在我上铺的兄弟”.与你的室友和谐相处吧
3、要反省自己
如果你在寝室里比较孤立的话,那么就必须得检讨自己了,不要一味地抱怨别人.为什么其他人都那么“齐心协力”的孤立你一个人呢?也许是你的行为太“自我中心”了——凡事很少为别人着想,自己想怎样就怎样,该休息的时候偏偏发出些声音影响别人,或对寝室的公共事情不怎么关心,打扫卫生不积极,只顾及自己的那块小空间,甚至有东西从不与人分享而对别人的东西却毫不客气等等.这些看似不大的事情长久了会伤害室友和你的感情,大家就会对你淡淡的.要想与室友友好相处,只有改变自己,从小事作起,有好吃的主动与别人分享,手脚勤快一点,提水扫地要表现积极一点.当然,做这些事情要表现出诚心,而且需要坚持下去,凡事多为别人着想一点,自然会改善与室友的关系,并结交很多的朋友.

我笑了很久~~
给同事说了
哈哈
大学生活 真怀念啊~~
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College Roommate Etiquette Tips
A Good Manners Guide to Keeping your Dorm Room Peaceful
Naomi Rockler-Gladen
Living in a small college dorm room with a roommate is not easy! To keep...

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College Roommate Etiquette Tips
A Good Manners Guide to Keeping your Dorm Room Peaceful
Naomi Rockler-Gladen
Living in a small college dorm room with a roommate is not easy! To keep your living arrangements peaceful, here are some tips.

One of the most difficult relationships you'll ever have may be with your college roommate, especially the fellow student you share a room with freshman year. Think about it: you're sharing a tiny dorm room with someone who's probably a total stranger. On top of that, you're trying to adjust to college life, academics, and the new experience of living away from home. It's inevitable that you are going to get on each other's nerves!
So how can you be a good roommate? First and foremost, be polite. You don't have to be best friends, but things will be much easier if you mind your manners and treat each other with respect.
Here are some dormitory etiquette tips to keep the relationship with your roommate as smooth as possible!
Clean up after yourself. Keeping your room neat can seem unimportant when you've got exams and a million things to do. However, this isn't your room alone, so being a slob is rude. Be sure to pick up your laundry, throw away your trash, and make your bed. After all, it's just a room. It doesn't take that much effort to clean it.
When your roommate wants quiet, be quiet. Doing otherwise is very rude. When your roommate is studying, go chat with your friends somewhere else. If you want to listen to music and your roommate does not, get some headphones.
Never wake a sleeping roommate. Sleep is a valuable resource for a college student, so don't be the reason your roommate doesn't get enough. Be quiet when you're coming in late at night, and respect the need to nap.
Do not use your roommate's stuff without permission. This goes for everything, including food. Similarly, don't snoop through your roommate's things. It can be tempting, but resist the urge.
Be reasonable about visits from friends. Of course you can have friends over, but make sure you are not monopolizing the room. If a friend is going to stay overnight, be sure to ask permission. It's also important that your visitors are polite to your roommate. By the same token, be polite to your roommate's visitors.

Be reasonable about visits from "special" friends. Visits from boyfriends and girlfriends can cause serious roommate conflicts. Never invite your date to sleep over unless you are sure it's okay with your roommate, and be careful not to abuse that privilege. You and your roommate might want to devise a "necktie" system to keep roommates away at inopportune times. However, only do this if your roommate is comfortable with the idea, and be sure your "necktie" incidents don't keep your roommate out too often. Never get physical when your roommate is around, even if he or she is asleep! This brings up a related issue:
Don't do anything that makes your roommate uncomfortable. It's always a bad idea to keep illicit drugs or alcohol in your room, but if your roommate objects, it's an even worse idea. This rule goes for more minor issues as well, including grooming. If your roommate is grossed out when your cut your toenails in the room, then don't.
Never gossip about your roommate. It's tempting to vent about your roommate's annoying habits to your buddies down the hall, but don't. If your roommate finds out (and there's a very good chance this will happen), he or she will be hopping mad. If you have issues with your roommate, talk to your roommate about them. This isn't the easiest thing to do, but it's a heck of a lot more mature than gossiping with your friends.
Never spread your roommate's secrets. Even if your roommate doesn't share his or her secrets with you, you're bound to stumble upon some private and juicy information. Spreading this kind of information isn't just rude: it's bad karma.
Do not break your roommate's things. If you do break something, apologize profusely and pay for it immediately. It also goes without saying that you should not steal your roommate's things.
Never make fun of or belittle your roommate. A little gentle teasing is okay, especially if you become friends. But keep your opinions to yourself about your roommate's funny little quirks.
Freshman year is stressful enough without having to worry about your roommate situation, so make an effort to be a good roommate. Common sense manners can go a long way to keep things harmonious in your little dorm room. Best of luck!
改一改应该就差不多了~

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大学的室友礼仪小费

一个有礼貌的引导,保持你的宿舍房间里安静

拿俄米Rockler-Gladen

住在乡下的一个小大学在宿舍房间里贴满了一个室友不容易!让你的生活安排和平,这里有一些有益的建议。

一个最困难的关系中,你永远都不会有可能和你的大学的室友,尤其是的同学你一...

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帮一楼那个翻译一下
大学的室友礼仪小费

一个有礼貌的引导,保持你的宿舍房间里安静

拿俄米Rockler-Gladen

住在乡下的一个小大学在宿舍房间里贴满了一个室友不容易!让你的生活安排和平,这里有一些有益的建议。

一个最困难的关系中,你永远都不会有可能和你的大学的室友,尤其是的同学你一间房间并共用大学一年级。想想看:你在共享一个小宿舍房间里的人可能是一个陌生人。最重要的是,你要适应大学生活,学术界和的体验生活离家出走。这是不可避免的,你要上互相烦恼!

你如何才能成为一名优秀的的室友相处得怎么样?首先,要有礼貌。你不必是最好的朋友,但是情况会更方便快捷,如果你注意你的礼貌与善待对方的尊重。

这里有一些宿舍小费让礼仪与你的室友好好相处的关系一样光滑越好!


自己收拾干净。保持房间整洁似乎是一个无关紧要的人,当你有考试和好多事情要做。然而,这不是您的房间孤单,如此一个懒散的人是不礼貌的。一定要取您要洗的衣服,扔掉你的垃圾,、收拾你的褥子。毕竟,这只是一个房间。它不了那么多努力把它打扫干净。

当你的室友要安静,安静。做,否则就是很粗鲁的。当你的室友正在学习,去与朋友聊天的地方。如果你想听音乐和你的室友相处得不,得到一些耳机。

永远不会吵醒正在睡觉的室友。睡眠是一个宝贵的资源,为大学生了,所以不要原因你的室友不充足。安静点,当你来晚了,和尊重需要打个盹。

不要使用你的室友的东西未经许可擅入该地。这是为我所做的一切,包括食品。同样,不要偷偷检查你的室友的东西。它很有诱惑力,但

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