求learn to say no演讲稿(带翻译 演讲时间大约在3分钟左右）

求learn to say no演讲稿(带翻译 演讲时间大约在3分钟左右）
求learn to say no演讲稿(带翻译 演讲时间大约在3分钟左右）

求learn to say no演讲稿(带翻译 演讲时间大约在3分钟左右）
您的问题很简单.呵呵.百度知道很高兴帮助您解决您提出的问题.
多给您几个.
一、
Hello Dear Friends,
Saying yes to people is easy – after all that’s what people want to hear.
But saying no to people is hard. Really hard. Especially to people you like.
But if you don’t learn to say no, you can’t respect yourself and thus no one else will either.

Saying no is often associated with negative feelings.

Say you say no to your girlfriend – what does she hear you saying? She probably hears you saying you don’t like her anymore, even if all you really
said is you don’t want to go to that silly romantic comedy with Jennifer Anniston that’s like all the other stupid Jennifer Anniston movies.

Saying no is hard.

That is why it's a lot easier to say yes all the time, because people like to avoid situations that cause confrontation. But at the same time, we don't feel proud or satisfied with saying yes all the time because at some level we want and need to do things for ourselves that are not what other people want.

Saying no in a non-confrontational way is a skill. To master it, we need to practise it. Even when we know it might cause some hurt feelings. One could always say to their boyfriend, “Hey, nothing personal, but I need to say no right now. Not because I don’t like you – I do – but I really don’t need to see Saw VIII again.”

This takes some courage, and courage I think is always a good thing to practice. Courage is something we all need, and as things are right now in the world, we need more of it every day. We need it to become able to choose for ourselves and say no when we feel that is right for us. We might disappoint someone, but if we have the courage to bite the bullet and just say no, respectfully, then people will eventually come to respect us precisely because they too unconsciously want to learn to say no too!

So once people get you don’t mean you don’t like them and that you’re just learning courage and self-respect, they too will try to do it for themselves. And when you say yes to something, they will know you really mean it.

See most of the time when you’re saying yes now – like nine times out of ten if you’re anything like me anyway – you don’t really mean it. And people on some level intuitively know it and don’t trust you or your motives.

So your girlfriend asks you to come to her parents for dinner for a thousand times and you’ve said yes all those times and hated every second. So you
say no and explain why – like really explain it – and then she knows that when you say yes the next time you won’t be faking it. That’s a way for you to tell her you love her subtly because then you’ll be doing it for her and she’ll know that. So being considerate is the other skill we need if we’re going to learn to say no properly. Taking the needs and wants of others into consideration is important; it might not change our decision, but it will allow us to get the message across in a respectful way.

So at the end of the day, learning to say no will not only make you happier, it will also make other people happier too.

Thanks for listening.
二、Probably "no" is one of the hardest,
shortest words to say in our daily
life. Sometimes it sounds a little cold,
but the true answer to our problem
lies in one word "no". We had better
learn to say no in some cases.

China is a traditional country with long
history. Golden mean is a virtue in our
history. People is fond to say "yes",not
advocated to say "no" in our society.
It is a pursuit of peaceful,harmonious,
balanced relations.
But times is changing.
The tide turns,we should go with the tide.

"Say No" is a skill, an art, an ability.
The trick is not to say no to everything,
just those things that you really don't
want to do or those things that you
disagree with.
If you want to be successful, to be
worth. You had better to learn to say
no in some cases.

Learning to say no is the needs of
innovation society. Every innovator
should dare to challenge the tradition,
classics,authority, innovating in thought,
science and technology.
We will do our effort to make our country
into a more advanced,prosperous one.

Learning to say no,dare to say no,
just say no in some cases.
You can't be everything to everyone.
The most important thing we can do
in life is to do only what we feel to be
right.
You must listen to your heart.
You must follow your heart.
God give every bird its food ,but
doesn't throw it into its nest.
Everything is truly up to you!
My friends,
for your future,
learn to say no !
三、
I’m in the middle of several projects.
I am not comfortable with that.
I am not taking on any new responsibilities.
I’m not the most qualified person for the job.
I do not enjoy that kind of work.
I do not have any more room in my calendar.
I hate to split my attention among projects.
I have another commitment.
(I’m afraid, I am committed to something else)
I have no experience with that.
I know you will do a wonderful job yourself.
I need to focus more on my personal life.
I need to focus on my career right now.
(I am sorry to turn you down.)
I need to leave some free time for myself.
I would rather decline than do a mediocre job.
I would rather help out with another task.
Let me hook you up with someone who can do it.
Not right now, but latter.
Something has come up that need my attention.
This really is not my strong suit.
I am sorry I am not interested.
(That’s that. / The conversation is over.)
I am really not in the mood.
I can’t handle it.
There is nothing to talk about it.
(No comment)
I really want to, but I got hundreds of things to do.
That’s enough, anymore is overkill.
(No, thanks, that’s overkill)