英语翻译Parents should stop blaming themselves because there's not a lot they can do about it.I mean the teenager problem.Whatever you do or however you choose to deal with it,at certain times a wonderful,reasonable and helpful child will turn in

英语翻译Parents should stop blaming themselves because there's not a lot they can do about it.I mean the teenager problem.Whatever you do or however you choose to deal with it,at certain times a wonderful,reasonable and helpful child will turn in
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Parents should stop blaming themselves because there's not a lot they can do about it.I mean the teenager problem.Whatever you do or however you choose to deal with it,at certain times a wonderful,reasonable and helpful child will turn into a terrible animal.I've seen friends deal with it in all kinds of different ways.One strict mother insisted that her son,right from a child,should stand up whenever anyone entered the room,open doors and shake hands like a gentleman.I saw him last week when I called round.Sprawling himself on the sofa in full length,he made no attempt to turn off the loud TV he was watching as I walked in,and his greeting was no more than a quick glance at me.His mother was ashamed.“I don't know what to do with him these days,” she said.“He's forgotten all the manners we taught him.” He hasn't forgotten them.He's just decided that he's not going to use them.She confessed(坦白) that she would like to come up behind him and throw him down from the sofa onto the floor.Another good friend of mine let her two daughters climb all over the furniture,reach across the table,stare at me and say,“I don't like your dress; it's ugly.” One of the daughters has recently been driven out of school.The other has left home.“Where did we go wrong?” her parents are now very sad.Probably nowhere much.At least,no more than the rest of that unfortunate race,parents.

英语翻译Parents should stop blaming themselves because there's not a lot they can do about it.I mean the teenager problem.Whatever you do or however you choose to deal with it,at certain times a wonderful,reasonable and helpful child will turn in
父母不要再责备自己因为能做的也没有多少.我说的是10多岁孩子的问题.无论你做什么,或者用什么方法来处理,到某些时候,一个原来相当不错的,懂事的并有帮助的小孩会变成一个可怕的动物.我看见一些朋友采用不同的方式来对付这一问题.有一位严厉的母亲坚持要他的儿子从孩提起每当见到客人来访就应当象一位绅士那样起身、开门并与客握手.上周我去他们家的时候我看见了他.我进门的时候,看见他四肢摊开躺在沙发上,懒得去关闭声音很响的电视.他对我的迎接只是用眼睛一瞥.他的母亲很不好意思.“这几天我真拿他没有办法”,她说.“我教他的礼仪他都忘记了”.（其实）他没忘.他只是决定他不想用这些礼仪.她坦承她真想走到他后面去把他从沙发上推到地板上去.我的另一位好朋友让她的两个女儿在家俱上爬上爬下,爬过桌子,盯着我说：“我不喜欢你的衣服,太难看了”.其中一个女儿最近被退学了.另一个也离家了.“我们哪儿做错了呢?” 她父母现在很不高兴.可能哪儿都没错.只是可怜天下父母心!

对于青少年的问题父母不应该过多自责，有些事情父母也是无能为力的。不管你怎么做，如何对待，有时候，一个懂事，乐于助人的孩子也会变成恐怖的怪兽。我看到过一个朋友用任何方法来处理。一个严格的母亲坚持要他的孩子：不管任何时候，任何人进入房间，都应该打开门，绅士的握手。上周我偶然拜访这个孩子，他瘫坐在沙发上，没有要关掉电视的意思，对我的招呼也只是瞟了一眼。。。。。...

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对于青少年的问题父母不应该过多自责，有些事情父母也是无能为力的。不管你怎么做，如何对待，有时候，一个懂事，乐于助人的孩子也会变成恐怖的怪兽。我看到过一个朋友用任何方法来处理。一个严格的母亲坚持要他的孩子：不管任何时候，任何人进入房间，都应该打开门，绅士的握手。上周我偶然拜访这个孩子，他瘫坐在沙发上，没有要关掉电视的意思，对我的招呼也只是瞟了一眼。。。。。

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